Welcome to the gay wedding weekend event of the year. We hope you can join us for one, two, or all three wedding events.

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Alan + Dwight

September 18–20, 2026 • Kansas City, MO
100 Days To Go!

Alan + Dwight

September 18–20, 2026 • Kansas City, MO
100 Days To Go!

Cocktail Party

Cocktail Attire

Cocktail attire is simple and elegant without being too formal. It balances elegance with comfort, bridging the gap between daywear and formal evening wear. It requires a polished look, typically featuring knee-length, midi dresses, or tailored jumpsuits for women, and suits with a tie for men.

Wedding Ceremony and Dinner

Classic Elegance

Classic elegance attire is a timeless, sophisticated style characterized by clean lines, tailored silhouettes. It focuses on a neutral color palette—black, white, navy, and beige—emphasizing "investment dressing" over passing trends, often described as a "quiet," polished, and smart aesthetic.

Drag Brunch

Attire: Be yourself, Fun, Fabulous and Free

We aren't reinventing the wheel here; Embracing happy, vibrant colors, bold patterns, and playful accessories. It often involves mixing styles (high-low fashion) or incorporating "dopamine dressing" to boost your mood.


A sense of drama, maximalism, or intentionality. It can involve using statement pieces, rich textures, sparkles, or bold accessories to make a "main character" entrance.


At the end of the day, where something that makes you feel completely you, while still having fun.

What are the colors for the wedding?

There are none, things are staying classic with black, white, metallics, blues, creams. Don't worry about sticking to any specific wedding colors, but don't be afraid to wear color either. Wear what makes you smile.